Is Privacy Dead?

In his classic tale of mind-control and totalitarianism, George Orwell described a world in which pervasive government surveillance was the norm and individual privacy some far-fetched fairy tale of an idea. Indeed, 1984 made waves when it was first published in 1949, and is perhaps even more disturbing sixty years later as our culture moves further and further into living out our lives online — truly, in a New Media world.

Thus my question for this post: Is privacy dead?

This question came to mind today after listening to a close friend tell me he thinks it is. He looks around at trends in our culture and is disturbed by some things he sees happening, mostly because of Social Media sites like Facebook and Twitter.

(Quick sidenote — While I am an active Social Media participant, he is not, and in fact, shuns Facebook and Twitter, and wonders why I would want to “share” so much of myself in these online social hubs.)

“Slowly but surely,” he said, “We are handing over every last right we have to someone else, namely the government, giving every last drop of our most scared selves to them. It won’t be long until every government agency has its nose in our business every single second of the day.”

I understand his concern. I have had it myself. More than once. And I know he is not the only one who thinks this way.

In fact, four self-proclaimed “geeks” from New York City are so concerned about handing over “every last drop” of their privacy to centralized Social Media sites like Facebook, they are fighting back with the creation of open software that will allow people to form their own “decentralized” hubs for social means. Hubs that protect and cherish users’ privacy and keep Big Brother at bay.

You can read their story from the New York Times by clicking here.

What particularly intrigued me about this article is that young people in their teens and twenties who have basically grown up sharing every last bit of daily trivia of their lives online, have a powerful desire for privacy.

Could it be the pendulum is swinging away from the over-exposed, tell-all cultural trend we have seen made popular through reality TV shows like “The Hills” and expose day time talk shows like Jerry Springer et. al.?

I have some friends who were in the Facebook community for a bit but have since closed their accounts, claiming unethical practices by the company or breeches of privacy.

And now that Facebook is fast becoming the new Google as a place for marketers and advertisers to promote their goods and services, I wonder how long it will be before we see a massive uprising and subsequent mutiny of Facebook users who take their friends to safer harbors where privacy is golden and never compromised?

What are your thoughts about privacy in Social Media? Has your privacy ever been compromised online? Do you think the loss of privacy is just one of the inevitable side-effects of using the Internet? Please share your stories and thoughts! And if you believe others would find this topic interesting, go ahead and share with your friends!

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Mary Lou Kayser

Mary Lou Kayser is a bestselling author, poet, and host of the Play Your Position podcast. Over the course of her unique career, she has influenced thousands of people to become more powerful as leaders, writers, and thinkers in their respective professional practices. She writes, teaches, and speaks about universal insights, ideas, and observations that empower audiences worldwide how to bet on themselves.

  • Hey Mary,

    I’m gonna be honest – it never really bothered me, this whole ‘lack of privacy’ issue. I mean people STILL have the right NOT to have a Facebook account (like your friends), as well as any other social network.

    I’ll be very afraid once they say – “if you don’t have a Facebook account – you’re no longer a citizen..” you see now that’s a problem..

    Didn’t Google get sued because of privacy issues with Orkut? :/

    thanks for this interesting article,
    have a great day
    Hector Cuevas
    .-= Hector Cuevas´s last blog ..5 Ways To Improve Conversion Rates On Your Blog =-.

  • Mary Lou,
    I think looking at Social Media alone is too narrow of a scope. Our information is out there, no matter if you are on a Social Media site or not. I think the issue is to make that information secure from any inquiries.

    Val 🙂
    .-= Val Wilcox´s last blog ..In a New Media World, Is Privacy Dead? =-.

  • Hey Mary Lou, This is a really hot topic now with Facebook changing their privacy rules. Unfortunately there are a lot of people who are not up on the changes that are being made almost daily and if you aren’t paying attention you could be sharing more than you thought!
    I always tell my kids who both have facebook sites that they should never post anything on their sites that they wouldn’t want me, their grandparents or a future employer to see. What they don’t realize is that social media is far reaching, almost anyone can “see” you and what you are posting, and it is out their in cyber world to be recalled at the most inopportune moments – like when you are interviewing for a top corporate position. I think you really need to be careful about what you are sharing – period. If it is harmless it doesn’t really matter. Thanks for this great thought provoking post!
    .-= Jan Hill´s last blog ..In a New Media World, Is Privacy Dead? =-.

  • Hi Jan, You are so right about teaching kids about creating their personal brand early on the social media sites. Because of their ages, teens are more likely to post something of “questionable” content, not thinking through the long-range consequences. Obviously, content can be removed, but sometimes the damage is done fast before the mistake is recognized. I have read horror stories of job candidates losing out on opportunities because of the content on their social media sites. It is definitely a new world out there! Thanks for sharing your thoughts!

  • Hi Val, When I think about how much data is stored “out there” about me and everyone else in this country, I get a bit spooked. But…you are right. Our privacy is compromised in many ways beyond social media. We just have to take the extra steps to make sure we protect what is most sacred. Thanks for sharing your perspective!

  • Hey Hector…thanks for sharing your point of view about privacy. Not everyone is concerned about it, as you point out. However, it is a concern for many people, especially those of us who are either GenXers or Boomers. I think privacy is a topic that will keep us engaged for a long time!

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